Using Soft Startups as a Communication Skill During Difficult Conversation

Often, women may find themselves living in a house, and often co-parenting with, a partner who they may be in the process of divorcing. Many may experience difficulty in communicating effectively before, during , and after a divorce.

When you are in this type of situation, and bringing up a concern to your partner, the first three minutes are crucial. A Soft Startup sets a positive tone and can help to minimize or resolve conflict. By beginning a conversation calmly and respectfully, you and your partner are more likely to focus on the problem, rather than what’s the problem.