PREPARING FOR DIVORCE and THE NEW YEAR
By Lindsay Ronilo, Divorce Attorney, Ronilo Law
As we are nearing the end of the year people undoubtedly begin looking towards the new year and the “fresh start” or changes they wish to make. We’re all familiar with New Year’s resolutions to eat healthier or exercise more, but in the world of divorces, January is often a very busy month for divorce filings. If you are contemplating a divorce, there are several things that you can do to prepare yourself to either beat the January rush or prepare for it.
1. Research attorneys.
Do an internet search, ask trusted friends, or ask other professionals in your life for attorney recommendations. I recommend meeting with more than one attorney so that you can find the best fit for you and your case. Each attorney you meet with may have a different approach to cases, communication style, or even fee structure -- so find what fits you best. I always tell potential clients, “Whether you hire me or someone else, find an attorney you can trust and someone you feel comfortable working with.” As we approach a busy time of year for divorce attorneys, even if you’re undecided as to whether divorce is the next step for you, it’s smart to get on their calendar sooner rather than later. Oftentimes speaking with an attorney and understanding how the law applies to you and your circumstances can provide much-needed understanding and clarity.
2. Understand your financials and resources.
Before you meet with an attorney, you can start putting together information that will help in understanding divorce in general, what is needed for your case, and even your own personal finances. All of these things are hugely helpful in navigating divorce and helping provide an attorney with as complete a picture as possible. The steps provided in The Ultimate Divorce Toolbox available from Donna Cates, CDFA, CRPC at www.moneymatterswealth.com, are geared towards helping you organize your financials and resources. This is an invaluable resource whether you ultimately decide to move forward with a divorce or not.
3. Have a support system.
It’s so important that you have family or close friends who can be there for you as you navigate the difficulties of divorce. Another invaluable resource can be a counselor to help you process the stressors and emotions inevitable in the divorce process. Even in the most amicable of cases having a counselor, family, and close friends to confide in can make the biggest difference. You don’t have to navigate divorce alone.
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